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Found out im pregnant after being told im most likely infertile my whole life

by /u/HannahMarie04 | 114 comments | 2026-06-14T00:16:05+00:00 Central

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/u/Conscious-Ad-1711
I feel like I hear so many cases like this.
/u/Busy-Bus-6267
Yes because people think infertile is the same as
sterile.
/u/mildly_spicy_potato
Woah. As an infertile person who had a surprise baby,
this was an eye opening sentence.
/u/PrehistoricPancakes
Yeah I had 2 surprise babies. I was told I was infertile
growing up and I guess I thought the first one was just
a super lucky 1 in a million chance but no, my partner
seems to be super fertile to make up for it or
something. I'm on birth control now lol.
/u/loam-and-light
Lollll idk why but "super fertile" made me laugh
Like damn going from thinking you may have no babies to
having two surprises and deciding to go on BC is crazy
lol
/u/Specific-River-81
I was told I was infertile, and yes I guess I mistook
that for sterile but at the same time didn't trust it. I
had two surprise babies after 30, both on very slight
birth control lapses that even the doctor said wouldn't
matter, and then ended up getting told I was super
fertile after an ovary scan. I think it was my first
longterm partner that was truly infertile. I had to have
my tubes tied
/u/PrehistoricPancakes
PCOS was the reason for the infertility in my case. I'm
glad we all have so many little miracles!
/u/AdDramatic6790
It genuinely shocks me that doctors go around telling
young women that they're infertile just because they
have PCOS.
/u/halabala33
Right? It just means you need to track and plan a bit
more. My doctor had zero advice when we were trying for
our 1st, it was PCOS=infertile, IVF is a must, bye bye.
We managed to get pregnant without IVF, after 3 years of
trying, literally after the first IVF consultation, I
was to have some surgery for them to see what's up, and
that was the cycle I finally got pregnant. I learned how
to track ovulation, got pregnant with second within 3
months of trying, it was ectopic, lost one tube, and
went on to have 2 more kids, both concieved within 3-4
months of trying. With PCOS and only 1 tube!
/u/Vexated13
My 23 year old friend got scared into carrying her child
from an abusive partner because of her doctor saying it
"would very likely be her one and only chance to be a
mother" and would soon be infertile due to PCOS. Luckily
they're relatively happy now, and she loves her kid to
the ends of the universe and back, obviously, but she
went through so much she shouldn't have and is with
someone she really shouldn't be simply because of that
opinion.
/u/Totallyfey
Yeah poly cystic implies you make multiple eggs at once.
I know a woman with PCOS who has fraternal twins.

I know this isn't the case for everyone with PCOS but
you'd think Doctors would know the possibility exists
and share that with patients.
/u/IllustriousBicycle68
Actually it implies that you develop many/multiple
ovarian cysts. You are correct that many women with PCOS
can have healthy pregnancies and it doesn't
(necessarily) stop ovulation.

I'm also not sure why doctors often equate PCOS to
infertility. Maybe they are trying to prepare their
patients for disappointment should they not be able to
conceive, or because it's easier to just lump everyone
with PCOS into a group than actually figure out what's
going on with their specific patient
/u/perpetualgoatnoises
That's what happened to me at 14.

I was hospitalized for a ruptured cyst. ER says I need
to see a gynecologist for this. Had some scans and more
blood tests than ever.

Gyno sits me down, "I am sorry to tell you this but you
have PCOS. You will not be able to conceive children. If
by chance you do, it will most likely be ectopic
pregnancy and that can put your life at risk."
/u/ItsAWrestlingMove
Right? I have a lot of significantly younger friends
through work and they're dating young women who are like
23 and talking about being infertile I'm like y'all are
babies yourselves you know nothing and you're not
actively trying? So how do you even know? What a wild
thing to say to a man on a second date.

Meanwhile I'm out here in my mid to late 30s
celebrating the fact that I beat teen pregnancy. And if
I got pregnant tomorrow? It'd still be a teen pregnancy
- to quote Ciara Miller lmao. The times are so different
from when I was growing up!
/u/12awr
After having 2 IUD babies my doctor nicknamed me fertile
turtle. A tubal fixed that issue lol.
/u/barbieneedscoffee
My friend got pregnant 2x time with the nexaplanon
implant. After the second time she was like we will be
looking at different birth controls going forward ๐Ÿคฃ

My first baby was a birth control + plan B baby (my now
husband and I always used condoms as an added mesasure
but one time we forgot!)

He's a healthy 6 year old now, but we were always like
okay dang it was meant to be.
/u/paulsclamchowder
Yowza!! That's super rare, I'm also a person who got
pregnant on Nexplanon. As of January 1st 2026 the
manufacturer officially extended the approved use time
to 5 years. Previously the manufacturer recommended use
up to 3 years, but it was FDA approved for up to 5 so
most people kept using it for 5 years. I got pregnant at
3 years 3 months ๐Ÿ˜ตโ€๐Ÿ’ซ I'd be interest to know the
time frame your friend's Nexplanon failed!
/u/monsieur-escargot
This is why I insist my partner also uses a condom!! No
BC (other than sterilization) is 100%. I'm on the mini
pill and freaked out that I could still get pregnant
even with near perfect use.
/u/barbieneedscoffee
Yes! and I've learned that so many outside factors can
impact the effectiveness of your BC (antibiotics, some
mood stabilizers, etc!)

My doctor really never discussed those things with me
when I first went out. Not saying mine was the norm (I
sure hope not!) but I feel like it needs to be shouted
from the rooftops more!
/u/monsieur-escargot
Some mood stabilizers?! Off to google my anti-anxiety
meds. ๐Ÿ˜ฌ
/u/Jen_outof10
Say what now???
I have an IUD, so naturally, this caught my
attention.๐Ÿ™ˆ
FWIW, mine's done its job for the past 10 years, but if
I need to double-check some things, I will.๐Ÿ™ƒ
/u/12awr
I wouldn't worry too much. My doctor said what happened
is almost impossible with incredibly low odds. I'm just
lucky they weren't ectopic and I didn't miscarry after
they removed them.
/u/ShandalfTheGreen
That's the part that makes this crazy to me! I state
went old-school on its abortion laws so I got my tubes
removed because I was so terrified of an ectopic
pregnancy. Idaho 100% would have waited until I was
actively dying to give me an "abortion" for an unviable
pregnancy. I'm taking no chances!

Now if I get pregnant it's going to be some miracle of
science ha
/u/12awr
I hear you, and in the end you have to do what's best
for your own health knowing you have a state actively
working against your best interests. To get my tubal the
doctor made me get my husband's approval, and even then
he spent so much time trying to convince me I may want
more children I left pissed. He was the only GYN surgeon
for hours because I lived in a small coastal community
so I felt forced to use him.
/u/LittleBirdiesCards
My dad once referred to my mom as a "Fertile Myrtle" and
I almost threw up.
/u/jmurphy42
I was told that I'd likely be infertile because my
mother and all of her sisters had major fertility
problems, and I had the same symptoms. I'm incredibly
glad that I was careful about birth control anyway,
because I've gotten pregnant on the first try every
single time I've attempted to.
/u/No_Yesterday7200
Mine was similar except 4 kids total. If he sneezed I
got pregnant. Endometriosis diagnosed at 17 said my odds
weren't good.
/u/Mylittlemoonshine
My partner had testicular cancer in 2017 and he had his
hangers and tubes removed; he also had a different gf at
the time and another partner there after. I was
girlfriend #3 post surgery and we welcomed our daughter
in 2020. There have been many doctors involved with not
being able to explain how he was able to produce a
child. Despite him being a medical anomaly; I demanded a
vasectomy. The day of his surgery the doctor was like
John Travolta and didn't know what he was summoned for.
https://giphy.com/gifs/6uGhT1O4sxpi8
/u/theGiraffePainter
1 in a million and you guys bang all the time
unprotected the odds just keep going up lol
/u/ChillMonger23
His sperm swimming towards your egg:
https://giphy.com/gifs/lqRu0AbfzcpMJlmT2I
/u/Busy-Bus-6267
This is one of the reasons why sex education in all
forms is so important.
/u/mildly_spicy_potato
My Mormon parents opted me out of my highschool sex-ed
without me even knowing ๐Ÿ˜…
/u/last_rights
My parents tried to opt me out, but me not telling them
when it was combined with me ignoring the teachers call
for "all exempt students can go to the library for a
free period" made it so I didn't miss it.

Also they owned the Joy of Sex and I found it when I
was ten and was VERY interested in reading it. I learned
most of the basics that way.
/u/marilyn_morose
Surprise babies club! My bestie has the best surprise
story. She had gone through menopause and hadn't had a
cycle in about a year. Her abdomen was swelling. She was
convinced she had cancer. So were her doctors. It was a
grim and scary time... until they discovered the "tumor"
was a five month pregnancy. She was 49-1/2 when she
surprise was born!
/u/ScarInternational161
2 years post menopause here!! No cycle 2 years, 40yr
old, only 1 ovary and tube left.

Heterotopic pregnancy. Found out when the ectopic
ruptured and they found a 2nd fetus snug in the uterus.
Long story short, he survived the open abdominal surgery
to clean up the ectopic rupture and is now 14.... my
oldest is 38. ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ
/u/bitchy_mcguire
I'd never heard the term "heterotopic pregnancy" before
reading your comment, so I was curious to Google it-
WOW!!! The odds of that happening must have been one in
a million ๐Ÿคฏ You basically won the lottery, lol!
/u/ScarInternational161
At 40, with kids ages 24, 21 and 13 i wasnt exactly
thinking a lotto win lol, i think i cried a lot
actually, but by God hes my pride and joy thats for
sure!!

Outside of invitro, which I guess it's rare, but not
unheard of, it's so rare in my situation, and to have
him survive, there are no statistics. My OB, who also
did the emergency surgery for the rupture, got my
permission to write about me in a journal lol.

Every ultrasound tech after that point was so fun, here
is a uterus, with a baby. No ovaries, no fallopian
tubes.... poor things looks so confused. ๐Ÿคฃ
/u/Sharkopath
That is incredible. What a little trooper!!
/u/Totallyfey
The astounding horrors the human body is capable of a
new anxiety for my perimenopause.
/u/marilyn_morose
Yisss, love these wild and crazy stories.
/u/crystalfairie
She wins. After menopause is scary. Then I remembered my
hysterectomy and laugh.
/u/MochaBunBun83
Same! Told I would probably never have kids. She's 18.
/u/madrandombb
As an infertile person... can this happen to me too ๐Ÿฅบ
/u/EarlGrayTea-Hawt
As an infertile person, I've had to find about a million
ways to say this to partners when I explain that we
still have to use protection, even if we're tested and
monogamous.
/u/HH_Creations
lol yeah, i'm one of those people!

Doctors told me at 26 I would have to do treatments to
have a kid

I'll be honest, they assumed I would understand it was
because I only had 1-4 periods a year from 11-26

I didn't realize what they were talking about and
genuinely thought they were saying I was incapable of
being pregnant

Guess who got pregnant 2 years later because I met my
husband and apparently it was ANXIETY and I started
having monthly periods

It was scary I went from NO periods to nonstop ones, i
legitimately had to have a hysterectomy because the
periods were nonstop after my second kid ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Bodies are weird andddd we need better health classes
/u/Lizziedeee
We need better studies of women's health.
/u/HH_Creations
Worst bit was other women not believing me!

One woman said me having "premarital sex" was the
reason I got nonstop periods after my second kid :(
/u/ModeRevolutionary314
https://giphy.com/gifs/8vDbvPMP3tGF2
/u/Ne0n_R0s3
Yeah, infertile means you just have a really really low
egg/sperm count. Doesn't mean it isn't possible, just
very unlikely.
/u/grapebeyond227
It can mean all sorts of things other than low egg/sperm
count. You could have a uterine lining that is too thin
to support a pregnancy. You could have a luteal phase
that is too short and sheds before an embryo has a
chance to implant. Your partner could have plenty of
sperm, but other issues like morphology or bad swimmers.
You could have a tube blockage of some sort. Or the eggs
you do have are not viable to produce healthy embryos.
And so on.
/u/mycookiepants
Or a retrovered uterus, which is something I discovered
I have thanks to an ultrasound
/u/nobody00000000001
Woah woah woah wait, no one told me that could affect
fertility. When I specifically asked my doctors about
that they said the only thing it did was make certain
sex positions hurt for some people. Did a doctor tell
you it made you infertile???
/u/Lunarmoo
Something like a quarter of women have a tilted uterus.
I don't believe it is a significant factor in
infertility in general. And for most people it tilts
back forward by the second trimester of pregnancy,
sometimes permanently. I would not be concerned about a
retroverted uterus unless told otherwise by my doctor.
/u/effietea
I had an ultrasound tech tell me I had a tilted uterus,
but then said that his wife does too and they have 6
kids so I shouldn't worry
/u/mycookiepants
Not infertile. I think it was one of multiple factors.
/u/United_Pain
๐Ÿคฃ I READ "removed" like 4 times and was writing a
frantic comment asking about how you didn't know your
uterus was removed until you had an ultrasound?!
๐Ÿ‘ฝ๐Ÿ‘ฝ๐Ÿ‘ฝ
/u/Icy-Purple4801
God, I would love to have a short luteal phase... I
turned into a sick, depressed monster for my whole
luteal phase! And I'm too sick to have kids
unfortunately.
/u/AmarysEms64
That is a very simplified answer to a condition that
actually has so many different causes. Infertility is
not always tied to sperm and egg count.
/u/jackSeamus
Some of the leading causes of infertility in women are
ovarian cancer, PMOS and endometriosis. None of which
are characterized by low egg count.
/u/Unusual-Helicopter15
Yep, my infertility is related to endometriosis, plus a
bunch of other concurrent issues. IVF and the process to
end up having a baby was eye opening with regards to all
the roadblocks that can exist without anyone ever
knowing. My ovarian reserve (egg count) is excellent.
It's just every other little thing.
/u/jackSeamus
My surprise endometriosis baby is about to turn 3. Five
years of trying, failed ablation surgery, successful
excision surgery and suddenly 5 positive pregnancy tests
a year later ๐Ÿ˜…

Best of luck to you if you're still in the process of
pursuing treatment or a child ๐Ÿ™
/u/AmarysEms64
Mine was not my own, but my husband's. Sperm count was
perfect, but not a single one of them could swim
properly
/u/HeadFullRoadFull
Granted, this is my recollection from going through
fertility treatment in 2014 (so there may be better info
now), but we were told that statistics surrounding cause
of fertility issues tend to fall like this: 1/3 of cases
it's a findable issue with the man, 1/3 of cases it's a
findable issue with the woman, and for that last third?
Unknown cause(s).
/u/Live-Independent5954
My doctor said, which is just one source, that being
labeled infertile medically just means you've been
having unprotected sex regularly longer than a year
without conception. I googled it and seems to be the
case. MANY people would technically qualify as
infertile. Not as uncommon as we think. And ALOT of
people who would have been considered infertile have
children. Myself included. Unless you don't have a
reproductive system and have 0 eggs, you can get
pregnant. Trust.
/u/Hungry_Box560
Yep, unexplained infertility here... now 7 weeks
pregnant. We deserve more education on this stuff!!
/u/Live-Independent5954
We really do! It's so sad how little they do for women.
/u/Artistic-Salary1738
Congrats! The unexplained infertility club sucks. We had
to do IUI, but I'm 19 weeks along. So many tests to find
nothing wrong, we absolutely do need more education and
research on women's health.
/u/HannahMarie04
I knew the difference, but its still really easy to lose
hope. I had tried for a while with no luck, and a few
months after I stopped trying is when this happened
/u/True-Quiet-7846
It be like that. Second kid took over a year to
conceive. We decided we were fine with one, I got tipsy
on margaritas on my birthday, bam, positive pregnancy
test 3 weeks later!!
/u/HH_Creations
I went from 1-4 periods a yr and told i would need
treatments to get pregnant

To monthly periods and 2 kids back to back haha 13
months apart
/u/AmarysEms64
The key is to pay attention when your doctor uses
phrases like "most likely" or "unlikely to concieve" and
so on.

Watch the show I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant and half
the women on there will say their doctor said something
along those lines. There is a huge difference even
between extremely low chances and impossibility.

I spent 2 years trying to concieve with my husband. Saw
a doctor that told us natural conception was "highly
unlikely." We concieved our daughter that very week. A
very happy surprise for us, but if you're betting on not
concieving a baby you don't want on a doctor's
"unlikely," dont!

Edit to also add: I hope this is a happy surprise for
OP and if not, I hope she lives somewhere where she has
access to all options she might consider and good
support.
/u/Donutgoblin21
you seem like you know some stuff... Tell Me, give me
the science... is it the men? (serious question)
/u/keIIzzz
Infertile means that it can be more difficult to get
pregnant (which that difficulty depends on the person),
but not impossible. Sterile means you cannot get
pregnant at all, which usually will only be the case if
you go through a sterilization procedure (although
outliers exist).
/u/burnt-heterodoxy
Team Sterile make some noiiiizzzeee!
/u/apricot675
50% of infertility cases are male factor. That can be a
number of sperm issues. It's pretty wild that only women
seem to worry about being the problem, I've never once
heard of a guy who worried about their sperm
quality/quantity until it became a known medical issue.
They are all so confident their sperm works.
/u/__ew__gross__
A lot of early miscarriages are likely due to the sperm
health. A man should start working out, stop eating bad
and stop drinking alcohol because its been found that it
harms the sperm which then affects pregnancy from
miscarriage to the symptoms mom experiences during
pregnancy. I think men need to prep like 2 months before
they even think about spreding their seed. Ladies of you
are consistenly having miscarriages early on in the
pregnancy get your mans sperm checked. Its likely his
fault not yours!!!
/u/MoistBlueberry1703
I swear our miscarriages were because my husbands age. A
male MFM doctor said it was likely my egg. Uh. No
/u/commanderquill
Uh, what? I think you're going to need to elaborate on
that one.
/u/Express_Pop810
THC and alcohol use negatively affects the attachment of
the placenta. One study I read showed that if a man's
partner had pre Eclampsia, the next partner had a 50%
higher chance of having it. The placenta is largely made
up of paternal DNA. Men are told the lie they have more
time than we do, they don't get counseled on healthy
habits and the partner they have a baby with pays the
price. ๐Ÿ˜•
/u/commanderquill
Oh shit, that's wild.
/u/Live_Philosopher_897
I mean, also some people are told they're infertile when
they're not based on certain factors. I have PCOS (I
guess PMOS now) and the first doctor who diagnosed me at
16 told me it meant I'd probably never have kids.
Doctors after him took a much softer stance but the
general consensus was that it would likely be pretty
difficult based solely on that diagnosis, no
ultrasounds, no fertility testing. I honestly took it at
face value because they're doctors. I mourned my
perceived possible inability to have children for the
past 16 years.

I got pregnant SO easily, second month of trying and
that's because I got the date of ovulation wrong the
first month and we tried on the wrong days. I know it is
actually such a blessing but I'm almost pissed I was
misled for literally half my life.
/u/Similar-Swimmer-2698
There are also very few reasons to suspect you're
infertile until you've tried for a baby long enough to
get the diagnosis.

But a lot of people seem to hear doctors saying they're
infertile because they had an irregular period or lots
of cramping.
/u/ThrowRA-Svent
I don't particularly agree with this take when it comes
to women who *want* to get pregnant. Many people who are
infertile still have sex with the intent of getting
pregnant & they still pursue fertility treatments.

I agree that *some* people think this way, but they are
more often the women who weren't trying to get pregnant
and thought their infertility meant they didn't need to
use protection.
/u/DextersGirl
I was one of them. I'm 43 now, I was told in my early
20's that I would need "serious medical intervention" to
get pregnant. Got very surprised when I was 28.

I think there was a rash of this "diagnosis" for women
who were likely suffering from endometriosis and/or PMOS
(previously PCOS), but not being diagnosed/treated for
it, because there was not a lot of information or
studies available.

Women's medicine has a long way to go.
/u/lnc_5103
Was told the same due to endometriosis, fibroids, and
cysts when I was 20. We got our surprise when I was 23.
I had a stomach bug and then we had a condom mishap. I
wasn't too worried about it but maybe should have been.
She's a teen now ๐Ÿคฃ
/u/AggravatingBox2421
Me too! I have PMOS and a low egg count, but got
pregnant on my first try at 27. With fraternal twins,
too
/u/Yipperyupper
I was diagnosed with PMOS when I was 18 and didnt expect
to ever get pregnant until I unexpectedly did my last
semester of college. When you have that in your mind
after being told it would be impossible definitely a rug
pull
/u/damndolly
That's because we still know next to nothing about
women's reproductive/ hormonal health. Like the say
POCOS is supposed to limit pregnancy and make it harder.
I have it, and I've had 3 children no problems. More
research needs to be done, because we're all different
and what one woman goes through, might not effect
another the same.
/u/Common_Safety_8830
You would think science would want this info. We're one
of the only mammal species (besides some whales) to go
through menopause. Why is that? There is probably so
much insight into how we work as a species in that info
and it is just sitting there unstudied because.......
/u/commanderquill
Science wants this info. Government and corporations
either don't care or are too scared. Fucking with
women's reproduction is serious business. The last time
we tried to do something that wasn't birth
control--morning sickness for pregnant women--there were
horrific results.

It's no excuse to remain ignorant. In fact, ignorance
caused that. But no one wants to be the government or
corporation or person who helps make the drug that kills
babies or sterilizes (white) women.
/u/damndolly
Glad you clarified, because they sure don't have a
problem sterilizing women of color.

Edit- lol to the downvotes, guess we as women are still
divided. History will tell you my statement is true, and
as a white woman I think it's disgusting that some of us
don't stand up for each other just because the color of
the skin that the woman is wrapped in.
/u/Professional_Cow9136
What? The poor whales!
/u/gOingmiaM8
Same, and ALL I had to do was learn my actual ovulation
and timing. People seriously think just because I didn't
get pregnant means I can't ๐Ÿ™„
/u/Relative-Act5470
Yep, unless you're 100% sterile, there's a possibility
of pregnancy, even if it's .000001%
/u/Meowiewowieex
This happened to not one but TWO of my girlfriends.
Spent thousands on IVF treatments, ended up with an
oopsie baby.
/u/GoldenSilk6
Moreso than not. My best friend was told she would never
conceive naturally because of her endometriosis.

She came off the pill and got pregnant on their first
try. Baby is now almost 5 months old.
/u/Sonnyjoon91
I'm fairly certain there is some twisted Greek God just
up there laughing, every person I know who swears they
couldn't get pregnant or that it would be life ruining
to get pregnant, gets pregnant. The people I know
desperate to get pregnant and become parents? Can't get
pregnant.
/u/StatementLazy1797
I was told at 19 I didn't ovulate and would never get
pregnant without some sort of medical intervention to
fix that. I never planned on having kids, and was
totally fine with this.

Found out I was pregnant at 35. Okay, there's my one in
a million miracle baby. At 39? TWINS. Two freaking
babies. And I feel so shitty because I watch so many
women around me go through hell and back just trying to
make one baby, while I'm now surrounded by babies that I
never particularly wanted in the first place.

(I love my kids more than anything in the world, and I
put everything I have into being a good mom. I am just
honest about the fact that they were all mistakes.)
/u/Sonnyjoon91
Yep, some Greek god saw that resolve of being ok being
babyless, and was like "you know what would be funny?
Late baby.. Even funnier? More late babies
/u/StatementLazy1797
I am reaching up from my pile of babies and flipping him
off right now.
/u/Formidabull
My mom was thrilled to hear that her endometriosis was
so severe that she and my dad wouldn't be able to have
kids because she absolutely did not want them.

I was a million to one shot according to her doctor. He
told her it would be impossible for it to happen again.
She had her tubes tied immediately after my sister was
born (and a hysterectomy shortly after, she really did
have severe endometriosis, it just didn't make it
impossible to conceive after all).
/u/ratatatoskr
Happened to my mom. I'm a "miracle child".
/u/George_Is_Upset
I'm taking your tag "Happy girl dinner" as you are happy
about this news so I want to say congrats!! ๐Ÿ’—

I know for some it can feel like mixed emotions after
coming to terms or starting to come to terms with
infertility. Hoping you have all the support you need
during your pregnancy.

Wishing you all the best and hope you enjoy those dino
nuggies!๐Ÿ˜Š
/u/HannahMarie04
Thank you so much! Its definitely been a rollercoaster
of emotions, but overall we're both very happy
/u/clumpymascara
Aw congratulations to you both. I hope you enjoy an
uneventful pregnancy, with a radiant glow and minimal
discomfort.
/u/Odd_Cress_2898
I was also alternating happy/scared until I saw the tag!

https://giphy.com/gifs/37H5XhwrXuHPq
/u/Late_Progress_1267
How do we feel OP???
/u/HannahMarie04
Very surprised but happy! Also very relieved because now
I know why ive felt like death for the last month lol
/u/thefrenchphanie
Pregnancy is not for the faint of heart.

The fatigue those first few weeks and the nausea etc.
There is always something highly annoying!
/u/HannahMarie04
The fatigue is the worst lol. I tried to clean my
bathroom and woke up on the floor. So far the nausea
isn't too bad, except in the morning and around the
smell of sandwiches
/u/BishopGodDamnYou
When I was in my third trimester pregnant with twins I
literally had to nap for like two hours a day lol.
/u/jetstream116
Most women start to feel a lot better around week 13!
Hang in there!

I kept a box of Honey Nut Cheerios next to my bed
during first trimester and would eat a handful the
second I woke up in the morning (or when I had insomnia
in the middle of the night) to keep the nausea at bay!

ETA: Congrats!! ๐Ÿฅณ
/u/honeyllama
Currently in my first trimester and the Honey Nut
Cheerios suggestion is amazing. Thank youuu!!