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Explain it Peter

by /u/Responsible_Dot_2619 | 110 comments | 2026-06-16T08:43:17+00:00 Central

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/u/Asfisav2049
The guy in the web dev team must have made it so that
the other coworkers didn't see the email and only he did
/u/skibbin
Web Dev here, we have no control over internal email
/u/Icanthearforshit
That sounds just like what a web dev that does have
control over internet email would say...
/u/Strange-Spot-3306
System Engineer here. We don't let some Web Devs get
control of our servers.
/u/Thor_800
Web Dev here. There are ways. 👀
/u/Le_mehawk
I'm here... and i have no control over my life
/u/StayJigglyPuft
My name is Dev and I am on the web
/u/ceadagamdulamach
I'd give that comment an award but unfortunately I am
not on the web.
/u/IndividualEye1803
[r/threadsofgold](r/threadsofgold) with "usual reddit
silliness" flair
/u/Exact-Psience
Im guessing that's short for Devid?
/u/stestagg
It's how we get them, Devid and conquer
/u/iPisslosses
na mines dev too, just that
/u/TapProfessional5146
Devon actually... last name Web.
/u/MrGua
Support employee here. Have you tried turning it off and
on again?
/u/wannacumnbeatmeoff
Support engineer here; The files are "In" the computer!
/u/OtherwiseFlamingo448
Cybersecurity analyst. I know everything about everyone.
I just dont care.
/u/Hadrollo
Security tech here. I can break into heaps of places if
I wanted to, I could totally just steal your onsite
servers. It's just that I can't really do much with them
if I did.
/u/pawlik187
System Engineer here, most stuff is in the Cloud
nowadays with 2FA.

There are ways but is it worth to rob a mud hut.
/u/darknekolux
seeing how web devs have no understanding of their apps,
networking and computers in general... #doubt
/u/G1cin
Hi im here too my name is Cole
/u/Freyr_Tuck
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/u/git_push_origin_prod
Once you learn react, is basically a secret key, a back
door which bypasses RSA encryption
/u/Standard-Pepper-6510
A "back door" you say... I'm interested...
/u/wannacumnbeatmeoff
Thats what your wife said!
/u/SeriousinSeattle_326
Infosec here. We know. We are just watching you dig your
own hole
/u/fennecdore
Sysadmin here. We don't let Web devs do things period.
/u/Shoddy-Marsupial301
sysadmin are so so cool, jk
/u/EternalLucius
SysAdmin here. Stop using fancy, fake titles for doing
the same sh!t we do
/u/Strange-Spot-3306
Well - it's just the name we use in my country - or
rather used. in theory i shoudl be calling myself
'Platform engineer' now - which has a different meaning
in other countries...
/u/MjolnirTheThunderer
The 15 person company probably didn't have a systems
engineer
/u/Strange-Spot-3306
well... and a 15 people company probably also doesn't
have a lot of people that like hiking that much or can
be so spontaneus as to agree to a weekend hike on
friday...
/u/MelinaSeeDee
Nah. I can confirm. WebDev is useless. They're glorified
interior decorators when you need a carpenter.

This is a joke. I'm sure there are useful web
developers out there. I just haven't met any.
/u/elboyoloco1
Email here.. I've never once seen web dev.
/u/PlentyOMangos
And when you control the mail, you control...
information!
/u/IAmRules
Yea he would need to be a sysadmin running their mx
server and even then acting very quickly.

Or he just liked her and showed up.
/u/Winjin
And even if he did, it's very dangerous because she
could mention it to people in person or talk about the
hike and everyone would be like "I received nothing"

At best he could try holding the emails and releasing
them like, five minutes before the arranged time. But
that doesn't mean she didn't make arrangements with at
least someone in person.

So I'm just with the idea that he showed up for hiking
and it's genuine
/u/timoumd
To be fair, in a company of 15 being a sysadmin isn't
crazy. But a single email the day before is probably the
reason.
/u/piratewaffles
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/u/Easy_Dystopie
small company - so the web dev ist the whole
IT-department! ; )
/u/reverendmalerik
Can confirm, have been this on multiple occasions.

To be honest I have also been the IT department in
companies with an IT department. I am right now.
/u/Undietaker1
She sent it via the contact us web page.
/u/Sheila_Monarch
Yeah, but in a company of 15 people, to even say "web
dev team" seems a bit of a stretch. Unless the whole
company was for a web-based operation, it's likely the
web dev guy was also IT admin, tech support, and every
other loosely related thing.
/u/TalkersCZ
And as likely it was IT company, where you had CEO, 1
admin person who managed offices, contracts etc, 1 sales
person, +-10 developers and some testers and support
people.

With this phrasing I would argue that its pretty much
guaranteed.

Most likely he invoked bro code and agreed with
everybody not to come.
/u/dirkman242
IT admin here: you're absolutely right. Let's say he
kept all mail on the spool until he personally approves
it, that would break so many ethical rules. If HR got a
whif of that, oh boy.
/u/GlitterLippy
Plot twist: she was HR
/u/ryanCrypt
I'll play along for the the humor. But web dev usually
means writing web pages, and these people don't usually
manage email servers.
/u/DomzSageon
yeah, that is usually for the admins, not the developer.
(trust me, I'm an IT Support who performs some admin
duties.)

edit: to clarify, we manage the email accounts, but
even I don't think we can block emails from reaching
people.
/u/RestaurantBusy724
Even if we could we'd have to know she was gonna send it
first.
/u/DomzSageon
True! I was gonna say that too
/u/icewrathx
You don't need to stop it from reaching people. Just as
soon as you see it arriving in your own mailbox, delete
it from the others.

New-ComplianceSearch -Name $search -ExchangeLocation
all -ContentMatchQuery
'(c:c)(subject:"X")(from:"User@mail.net")‎'
Start-ComplianceSearch -Identity $search -verbose
New-ComplianceSearchAction -SearchName $search -Purge
-PurgeType SoftDelete -Force -Confirm:$false -Verbose
/u/rejvrejv
this guy unfortunately sysadmins
/u/Rainmaker526
You don't need control over the mailserver.

You need control over your colleagues.

https://xkcd.com/538/
/u/SadITSupporter
People keep saying this whenever this gets asked, and
for the sake of the joke sure. But as the guy who
manages the email server: The web Devs have no actual
way of doing it, heck, even the sysadmins would have a
hard time blocking a specific email that we don't know
is coming. It doesn't make any sense. Not to talk about
it'll cost you your job if caught.
/u/CuriousTech24
This s Is the biggest thing. He would literally have to
be stalking her and reading every email of hers that she
sends out the moment she sends it. And then have had s
plan I n mind that when she randomly invited everyone he
would delete the rest of the emails.
/u/RohelTheConqueror
That's not even technically possible lol
/u/wallabee_kingpin_
It is technically possible if you're the email admin,
but it's unlikely he would've been able to do it before
the email was sent or before it was downloaded by other
employees' email clients.

Some servers (like Exchange) allow fully yanking an
email out of someone's inbox even after they've
downloaded it, but it's still very unlikely a web dev
would've had that access and abused it.
/u/HousingNo4084
1) Web dev guys don't have any access to mail servers.

2) A so small company doesn't maintain a their own mail
server.
/u/testtdk
You really think that's more likely than everyone just
being lazy? There are very few people in the jobs I've
worked I'd want to go hiking with.
/u/ptvlm
Extraordinarily unlikely. First off, web devs aren't sys
admins, they'd have no direct control over email.
Second, a company with 15 employees is very unlikely to
be running their own mail servers in the first place,
they'll almost certainly be using GMail or Outlook on
Office365, so no broad server rights or scripting.
Third, unless he somehow knew beforehand that the mail
was going to be sent out, he'd have to go into each
mailbox separately and delete the email after it had
been delivered, and do so before anyone saw the email
and without anyone noticing randomly disappearing
emails.

No, it's way more likely that most of the employees
just don't want to go hiking in their downtime with a
random co-worker, and this guy just happens to share
that interest enough to have turned up. No conspiracy
here, just a case of most people having better things to
do.
/u/ghigo2008
Is there even a joke here? Web dev is not that type of
job, I think its just a story
/u/MagYkHeap
Tell me you don't know anything about IT without telling
me.
/u/Spinning_Sky
now the question is: crazy romantic or mad creepy?
/u/suesuesueveeyo
Depends how good he is in bed
/u/Positive_Lychee_7736
The joke is probably about the guy pulling some shit so
the others didn't see the email, since he already liked
her and wanted alone time with her, but I don't think
his job as a web developer really fits for that kinda
thing
/u/Sea_Life4
He might not have developed a website for the sabotage,
but maybe he had enough computer knowledge to pull off
the task
/u/Simple_Magazine_3450
It's not the knowledge, it's a permissions issue. I know
how to do it but I can't because I'm not the system
admin. Then maybe he just asked his friend to help.
/u/PrivateJokerX929
or, call me crazy here, but since the company was only
15 people, bro just had to ask maybe 5 people who were
thinking of showing up, to not show up so he could get
some alone time.
/u/SwordfishIcy1171
no, he hacked the mainframe.
/u/Piideri
"If he's in, then I'm in!"
/u/Daniel_Monti
Or is not that crazy that in a 15 person group only two
like/were available to go hiking.
/u/PrivateJokerX929
probably the most likely answer tbh
/u/Sea_Life4
Not* but yeah, your answer makes a lot more sense than
mine. I also agree with your last point
/u/Acceptable-Size-2324
Only the companies hackerman came
/u/supaikuakuma
The joke is the person writing "who's going to tell her"
doesn't know what web devs do.
/u/timoumd
Plus with just 15 people is not crazy none are
interested. Any that have kids might not. Some might not
like hiking, especially if it's long. Some might be guys
with a SO that didn't want the appearance of going on a
date with a coworker of it seemed like the attendence
was low.
/u/Thea-the-Phoenix
Some may just not like hanging out with coworkers that
much. I have several I'm friendly with at work that I
really wouldn't want to spend time with outside of work.
/u/timoumd
And if her only mention of it was an email the day
before is not that crazy.
/u/Crane_Train
it's good this concept has been flushed out so
thoroughly
/u/Different_Career1009
all the vagueposters like this one are much less clever
than they think they are and far more annoying.
/u/vonralls
Don't you know that if you are even remotely associated
with Technology that you can do anything?
/u/guymer-derickt2z55
Right? That would be a sysadmin or IT guy. A web dev is
too busy trying to center a div to intercept company
emails.
/u/thatgirlzhao
Also, I'm sorry, but I'm not going hiking with my co
workers all weekend-and I actually like a lot of my co
workers.
/u/ryanCrypt
I don't think this is a joke. It's just a wholesome post
about meeting someone.

The "meme" in the title doesn't mean joke. It means
"something that can signify meaning"
/u/Spinning_Sky
the question isabout the "who's going to tell
her"comment above
/u/ryanCrypt
You're right that I missed that. Only comes up when I
expand image.
/u/the_bad_religion
The old man that likes fluffy boys here. The web dev was
a former ex Marine with stealth training. He spent 13
months gaining access to each of the 15 people's houses.
He had copies of the keys, floor blueprints, etc. Once
he saw the email, he went to each of the houses at
night, crawled into their bedrooms, and kiss each of
them in the forehead while singing Hurt, by Johnny Cash.
After that, he went to the kitchen and prepared a glass
of milk for himself. He did the same on each of the
houses. Then he went to the meeting with the girl in the
photo. He couldn't hold it and told her to time how long
he can pee. He peed for about 63 seconds, thanks to all
the milk he drank. She was truly impressed and since
then they have been together.
/u/Lost_Protection3139
So much crucial detail. This must be true.
/u/the_bad_religion
Plot twist: I was Johnny Cash.
/u/Salty-Taro3804
Everybody be like "lol like the web dev has email
control" and no one be like "wouldn't she find out the
second she actually talks to any of the coworkers about
the hike they all didn't go on" confirms the level of
socialization of the average redditer.
/u/violentmark
It's amazing how far down I had to scroll to find this
comment. Imagine thinking every real social interaction
in reality is like the ones you have with a NPC from a
2000s game.
/u/29pixxL_
A lot of people are saying that it probably means that
the "Who's going to tell her" guy is implying that web
dev guy did something to make the email only reach him,
which would be very strange and not representative of
what being a web dev is

When I first read it though, I kinda thought that it
was probably that all her coworkers consciously decided
to help their web dev guy get with her by having only
him go, and she's unaware of how it was coordinated
/u/just_kill_me_pls
I hope your theory is the correct one because that would
restore my faith in people.
/u/GottaUseEmAll
Yeah, I'm choosing to believe that that's what happened.
/u/incorrectionguy
Web devs have absolutely zero control over internal
emails. Zero. He did nothing.
/u/cowflywins
and also that he's not really into hiking but went
because he liked her 😃
/u/spaceinvader421
That makes more sense, but I still think the simplest
explanation is the best: no one wants to go on a hike
with their coworkers unless they're already interested
in them romantically.
/u/Intelligent-Mango-52
As someone that organised work events for weekends, 13%
turn out is pretty good!
/u/TunaPablito
In Austria guy went hiking with his wife and she was
"injured" and he didn't call for help until it was too
late.

So he planned all that to murder her.
/u/Aflockofants
What a strange thing to post here.
/u/stayoutofthemines
This was my thought, too. Everyone's focusing on the web
dev thing instead of the hike thing. Don't they call it
Alpine Divorce when a man leaves his wife to die in the
mountains?
/u/BuddelTheWolp
But what about a six year marriage anniversary screams
"murder" to you?
/u/WappieK
That's a true story but in this case and other posts
about this topic people said that he was liking her long
before the hike and therefor showed up. Just innocent
love. The best access to a girl/woman you like is let
her invite you basically.
/u/SixthSunday
I thought it was about the 7 year itch and the viral
trend of Alpine Divorce, which is when one romantic
partner deliberately abandons the other in a remote,
dangerous outdoor setting, such as a mountain or hiking
trail
/u/coolfunnytypoguy
I didn't see the "so, who's going to tell her" part and
was absolutely fuming at OP posting this here.
/u/Foolsbry
There's no joke, it's just a wholesome story about two
people meeting. Anyone who says otherwise is lying or
misinformed
/u/BuddelTheWolp
Seriously. One half of the people here think he pulled
some hackerman shit so the others wouldn't see the mail,
and like no

And the other half thinks he wants to murder her
because they're on Reddit too much
/u/Imogynn
Why does nobody ever think that maybe she's lying,?

She sent one email to ask him out and claimed it was to
a whole team. Fourteen typos, one real ask and a lie
she's been living with
/u/testtdk
Because that would just be a cute story, instead of some
dark secret.
/u/puttputtxreader
I mean, it would have come out after he had one
conversation with a coworker, so probably not.