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Awful people - well done Mum for checking

by /u/alfius-togra | 73 comments | 2026-06-16T08:40:08+00:00 Central

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/u/mildlyinfuriating-ModTeam
This post has been removed as this is not mildly
infuriating.

Please consider posting to r/extremelyinfuriating
instead.
/u/Any-Gold-9852
Shoutout to your mom for checking, mine would've already
sent them her social security number and bank details
before I could even reply.
/u/Uryalis
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/u/menonte
My father told me I should check if I can get money
somewhere else in response to a scam message requesting
money. He managed to write to my number instead of the
fake number, so I guess it's something?
/u/Dany_HH
Hey, it's me, ur brother.

Can you give me our mom's phone number, I lost it...
/u/A_Bit_Of_Nonsense
My dad got fooled by one of these, but then the guy
asked my dad how he was doing, my dad immediately knew
he was not texting my brother.
/u/eulersidentification
What a great mum though. Heart's in the right place.
/u/SourcedLewk
Mine sent a message in the extendee family group chat
advising everyone that my number had changed...without
asking me first 😂
/u/Jurtaani
Se can mark this down as one of those dumb scams that
make no sense. Why would you text someone asking them to
message you on WhatsApp?
/u/imafinhehe
My guess is because the sms costs money depending on
your plan. My guess is they have the cheapest one with
no free sms and send one message asking to use WhatsApp.
/u/HeWhoHasTooManyDogs
Its because WhatsApps are easy to send from any country,
and you don't even need a Sim card. That is not the same
for SMS
/u/zenzofe
You do need a simcard for whatsapp tho, you're required
to have a number.
/u/HeWhoHasTooManyDogs
You are not required to maintain it. Once you register
and confirm it, you may dispose of the Sim and keep
using the account, so long as you have functioning
internet and the operator doesn't reissue the number to
someone else who wants to register it to WhatsApp.
/u/zenzofe
Ye you see, there is a difference between not requiring
it and not requiring to keep maintaining it. You do need
a sim card, you just dont need to keep it after you set
it up. But this process still requires a sim card to use
nonetheless.
/u/HeWhoHasTooManyDogs
It's an absolutely meaningless and asinine distinction
in a world where you don't have to identify yourself to
recieve the initial sim card.

Also I said you don't need a sim card to send messages,
not that you do not need a Sim card. Which is factually
true.
/u/Weapos
in a world where you don't have to identify yourself to
recieve the initial sim card.

It's almost exclusively an American thing. Almost
everywhere else, you need a government-issued ID to
activate a SIM card, which links your phone number to
your identity. It's done to combat scams and other
crimes, so that people can't simply use anonymous
numbers to commit them.

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/u/HeWhoHasTooManyDogs
I absolutely refuse to believe it's followed through in
literally all of Africa and Asia.

But even so, a single green country is enough for
scams.
/u/Weapos
It is followed, with the exception of a handful of
countries. That's why SIM cards used in scams are often
from specific countries where the registration system is
corrupt and poorly enforced. Many of them come from
certain countries in South Asia. That's also why
WhatsApp shows which country a phone number is
registered in, so that people can be wary of messages
from numbers originating from, say, Cambodia, and not
your home country.
/u/zenzofe
If it was as meaningless and asinine as you describe it
to be, then you wouldn't need a sim card to register the
number. But you do. So the distinction matters enough.

Either way, not going to entertain you further so have
a good day.
/u/Anarchyr
don't need a sim card, e-sims or spoofs also work.
/u/Mccobsta
Voip numbers currently work for it which isn't great as
scammers use it
/u/NotYourReddit18
You can use a landline, a cheap prepaid sim, or a
disposable voip number to set up your WhatsApp account,
you don't have to maintain access to that number.
/u/Ravness13
Is that...a thing still? I know some places like banks
or what not still have the "Normal SMS charges will be
applied" to things if they text you for whatever reason,
but are there still actually plans that have to pay for
texts? I assumed they did away with that ages ago. Most
places I've seen either make you pay for call minutes or
data, but I've not seen a text payment in probably 20
years.
/u/leona1990_000
Otoh, most UK plans have unlimited SMS. And the number
looks like an UK one to me
/u/Jurtaani
Well then you can message the person in WhatsApp
/u/DezXerneas
Also, anyone replying is dumb enough to not check why tf
that person wouldn't directly reach out on WhatsApp in
the first place. And why the number is different now.
/u/NarrMaster
If you don't ask yourself that, you are more likely to
fall for the rest of the scam.

Round one weeds out the folks that won't pay out.
/u/Vondi
The Dumbness of the scam is very much the point. They
send this to thousands of people to find the few people
gullible enough to fall for it.
/u/commmingtonite
This 1000% will work on my mum, triggers their panic and
the reasoning stops working
/u/l-1-l-1-l
Because the scam is the link-it doesn't lead to
WhatsApp, it introduces malware to your device, I think.
/u/Reutermo
Sometimes these scams are dumb by design, because then
you only get gullible people/computer illiterate
people/easy to scam people to reply to you.
/u/zerbey
WhatsApp is very popular outside of the US, pretty much
all of my English family uses it for communication.
Called my Dad on it just this morning in fact. So,
Boomer with low technical ability + WhatsApp + Asshole
scammer = easy mark.
/u/Great-Appointment-49
I think it's very crucial to make the aged people aware
of new scams.

They have phones and internet and can be easily
manipulated and scammed.
/u/lastofthe_timeladies
I sent a bunch of common scam explanations to my grandma
after it came up somewhere just so she'd be safe. She
replied, "thanks for thinking of me but I already know
these, we attended a seminar." Probably through her
senior living home. Smart!
/u/Great-Appointment-49
My mom would just say "Now you'll teach me, eh?".
/u/wa019c
I'm lucky to have a grandma who isn't very tech
literate, but isn't easily manipulated either
/u/rising30k
The good thing about being an orphan. 😀
/u/mrzlozt
I also cackle at scams "Dad, I got into an accident!"
while having no kids whatsoever
/u/imafinhehe
My grandma got a text like this but she thought that it
didn't seem like something I would say. Thank god she
asked me and blocked it.
/u/MrBlyat
My brother recieved one of these recently, it began "Hi
Dad..." (my brother is not a father). He thought it was
from our Dad's new number and ended up adding it to the
family WhatsApp group.

We mocked him for falling for it, thankfully nothing
bad happened and there was no information to steal from
the group as it was fairly new.
/u/brickiex2
Families should have secret words or questions that can
be verified with a phone call...questions that only your
family will know. Like "what is the name of the neighbor
that live 2 doors over who moved 20 years ago?".....
"what was the nickname of the vehicle we drove on the
big roadtrip to Florida when you were kids?"

I have similar ones with my financial advisor
/u/OzzieOxborrow
My dad fell for this a couple of years ago. And normally
he never answers on whatsapp but this time he just
transferred 2000 euro without even giving a call to my
brother.
/u/Jealous_Amount_9278
My grandad recently fell for one of these text scams.
Lost his entire pension. So fricken sad.
/u/colourofsweetlove
We had this scam and we fell for it, since my sister was
the only one not at our gathering, when my mum got a
text saying she'd been mugged, we just assumed it was
her. But if my mum was going to send her money, she
already has her bank details, and she would have
realised it was a scam if she'd been given new details.

I fell for it by texting the number asking how she was,
and I told her I'd been to the doctors that day and
shared some rather gory information, and the scammer
thought I'd cottoned on and blocked me!!! I was so
embarrassed!!! 🤣
/u/whoopz1942
I was very surprised when I discovered I had become a
mom the other day, since I'm actually a male.
/u/alfius-togra
Congratulations, I guess!
/u/spinstartshere
Great job on the censorship attempt.

Save 07732 290787? Saving this number will add a new
contact
/u/alfius-togra
The part I blanked out was a link to a whatsapp chat
which looked like it might have been unique to the
intended victim and therefore identified my mother
somehow. The number ending 787 is the scammers number,
so fuck them.
/u/SunlessSage
It's a scammer's phone number. What's the worst that
could happen? Them getting harassed and forced to get a
different number for their scams?
/u/spinstartshere
I'm not the one who tried to censor the phone number in
the first place...

Go after OP if you want to have a whinge at someone.
/u/SunlessSage
Oh no, I'm not trying to antagonise you or anyone else
here.

I'm just pointing out that the only one who's remotely
at risk of being compromised here is the scammer. And
who even cares? If it hinders their scamming, all the
better.
/u/spinstartshere
Not me. I was mocking the censorship attempt.
/u/alfius-togra
I made no attempt to censor the scammer's info 😛
/u/SunlessSage
Then I think we're good, right?

You mocked the poor censorship attempt, I mocked the
scammer who just got their number leaked. All is well.
/u/GottaUseEmAll
OP was censoring a link, and they did so perfectly well.
I'm not sure what you're trying to mock.
/u/Adventurous-Map7959
What's the worst that could happen?

It's a spoofed number and belongs to someone not even
remotely aware that their number is used for illegal
shit
/u/SunlessSage
Even then, this will let them know their number is
compromised so they can take action.

If this happened to me, I'd rather wake up to some
annoying calls or messages than that I remain blissfully
ignorant about someone using my number to scam people.
/u/Melownz
What's censored is a link, not a phone number, no?
/u/imafinhehe
Love when people try and fail censoring something like
that.
/u/kaddras019
My grandma would have all her information stolen within
10 minutes 😭 walked downstairs one time to her on the
phone with 'apple' who was telling her they needed her
information for security purposes or her phone would be
hacked
/u/slimmyboy007
I had this happen
Luckily I live in the part of the country where we call
her mom instead of mum so she knew something was off
/u/Guy-1nc0gn1t0
Sort of reminds me to have a chat with my mum about this
sort of thing
/u/alfius-togra
It's worth doing. Fortunately, my parents are pretty
switched on about this sort of thing, but there are far
too many vulnerable elder people out there who haven't
developed the sort of mistrust-by-default approach that
comes from years of internet usage.
/u/Excellent-Bite196
🎵 Good on ya mum... 🎵
/u/Kiwitechgirl
I got one the other day. I was amazed to learn that my
4yo had a cellphone I didn't know about, can type text
messages, and that she apparently now lives in the
Philippines (I had to look up the country code to find
out where it was from).
/u/ledow
About once a month my dad asks me if I'm the person who
sent a text from a random number claiming to be me,
losing my phone and needing money.

Tell you what, dad? If that ever happens.... I'll let
you know in other ways that you can be sure it's me.

I hope that my cynicism, distrust and pessimism carries
into my old age because it's the only protection we have
against this shite as the telco's are absolutely
disinterested in stopping it.
/u/enchantedcell
Someone tried to scam my dad out of money the other day
but luckily he just sent it to me! There seems to be a
lot of them going around right now.
/u/MountainImportant211
Well my Mum has no idea how to use WhatsApp so she's
safe
/u/Floralmeg_
This is what gets me about these scammers. They could
just straight use texting OR already try them on
WhatsApp. Why are they going through all this? It's
weird, but scammers still think this tactic is great
/u/Bigred2989-
Once had an old man come up to me at work with some
Google Play Store gift cards and ask me if someone could
buy gas with these. He'd gotten a text from his
"daughter" saying she was stranded and needed gas money,
but he only got suspicious when he say the scam warning
signs all over the gift card rack.
/u/white-strawberry
Once had someone do that to me (I have no kids),
pretending to have lost their phone, and I messed with
them a little bit just for fun. I then told my mom about
it, and she asked me "but how will he find his phone
again then?". I'm really scared it could happen to her,
because she's so naive and gullible...
/u/zerbey
My late Mum used to get these type of scam calls all the
time, and her first question was always "So, where is my
son right now?" and they'd give some bullshit answer
that I was stuck in London or some other European city.
Then she'd string them along for a few minutes before
hanging up.

Her son lives in the US. I wouldn't have shown up lost
in London without calling her first. That's my brother's
deal (true story).
/u/Informal-Term1138
I got such a message at 2 am in the morning once.

When I was 24, a single student with no kid. I just
reported the number to the dutch police immediately.